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Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex. This complaint is so pervasive that I've actually written three other articles (Part I, Part II and Part III) for AskMen.com on the subject. But it's not just the complaints that have spurned these articles, it's also the hundreds of men who write me asking for advice on how to give great oral sex. I can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, I thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues. The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out," and I'm not talking about fine dining.
If you're not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you'll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; I suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.
Tongue to lips
Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.
When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an over-achiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don't like ice-cream, I'm sure you can appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.
Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.
Oral exploration
Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy. Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides. While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground. Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.
Above all, have fun down there when you're giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).
Intense vaginal volume
When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.
Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes. If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will virtually have a mind-blowing orgasm every time.
Finger-licking good
There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.
While you're French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris and penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.
Be careful not to lose sight of what you're doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hanging out to dry. Keep up with what you're doing to her. Make sure that you're not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-spot; it's not that big of a mystery as it's a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.
The tongue's the one
Use your tongue freely and don't be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren't aware of this, but, if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world's greatest aphrodisiacs.
No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don't lose your mind while you're in her sacred garden. Don't start drooling all over her vagina and don't do random things when you're giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you're going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball. Lastly, and I can't stress this enough, never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you'll probably get thrown into the dog house.
Useful positions
In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you'll have perfect access to her vagina, which allow you to manipulate it with your fingers.
You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.
Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you'll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her love cave. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.
Savor it
Women don't like rough brutes, but they want to see that their men are enjoying themselves while performing oral sex. Show her that you love tasting her by taking your time and being gentle. Use your lips, tongue and mouth lovingly on the areas surrounding her genitals.
When she can't stand it any longer, use your tongue as if it were a feather before you cover her with your mouth. Touch her vagina lightly, licking the labia and finding the vaginal opening. You can probe your tongue in and out, but remember, she's waiting for you to use your mouth, not your tongue.
Be a "gentle" man
Women's genitals are very sensitive. Don't bite, don't blow into her and don't suck too hard. Everything you do has to be gentle; as if you're trying to lick a rose's petal without breaking it or pricking yourself. When you feel the time is right, move on to her clitoris -- the place that brings most women to orgasm. Use your tongue softly to make slow, wide and sensual strokes from the vaginal opening to the clitoris.
Keep a steady rhythm
Some men make the mistake of increasing the stroking speed once they sense the woman is close to orgasm. But this is not the right way. Instead, keep the same rhythm or even decrease the stroking speed of your tongue. At this point, she will have a powerful orgasm, and probably more than just one.
Time for gymnastics
Just like intercourse, oral sex feels different depending on how it's delivered. By trying different positions, oral play can create different moods, resulting in different and exciting visual scenarios, and leading to different kinds of stimulation. This will, in turn, set you apart from other men and get her addicted to you.
From personal experience, there are two different positions which really fuel a woman's orgasm: the Reverse Hug and Doggy Greet . The Reverse Hug: This one is tricky but well worth it. You'll need to be in shape to do this, and it's another reason why you should exercise and build your muscles.
Hold her upside down in front of you. Keep her head and shoulders resting on the bed, and her back resting against your stomach and chest. Hold her up so that she won't feel too much pressure on the back of her neck. Have her wrap her legs around your head and lock her feet behind your neck. Wrap your arms around her belly and then simply lower your face between her legs.
Women enjoy this position because of the stimulation caused by the combination of oral sex and the "head rush" they get when positioned upside down.
The Doggy Greet:
Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex. This complaint is so pervasive that I've actually written three other articles (Part I, Part II and Part III) for AskMen.com on the subject. But it's not just the complaints that have spurned these articles, it's also the hundreds of men who write me asking for advice on how to give great oral sex. I can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, I thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues. The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out," and I'm not talking about fine dining.
If you're not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you'll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; I suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.
Tongue to lips
Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.
When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an over-achiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don't like ice-cream, I'm sure you can appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.
Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.
Oral exploration
Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy. Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides. While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground. Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.
Above all, have fun down there when you're giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).
Intense vaginal volume
When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.
Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes. If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will virtually have a mind-blowing orgasm every time.
Finger-licking good
There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.
While you're French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris and penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.
Be careful not to lose sight of what you're doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hanging out to dry. Keep up with what you're doing to her. Make sure that you're not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-spot; it's not that big of a mystery as it's a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.
The tongue's the one
Use your tongue freely and don't be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren't aware of this, but, if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world's greatest aphrodisiacs.
No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don't lose your mind while you're in her sacred garden. Don't start drooling all over her vagina and don't do random things when you're giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you're going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball. Lastly, and I can't stress this enough, never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you'll probably get thrown into the dog house.
Useful positions
In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you'll have perfect access to her vagina, which allow you to manipulate it with your fingers.
You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.
Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you'll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her love cave. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.
Savor it
Women don't like rough brutes, but they want to see that their men are enjoying themselves while performing oral sex. Show her that you love tasting her by taking your time and being gentle. Use your lips, tongue and mouth lovingly on the areas surrounding her genitals.
When she can't stand it any longer, use your tongue as if it were a feather before you cover her with your mouth. Touch her vagina lightly, licking the labia and finding the vaginal opening. You can probe your tongue in and out, but remember, she's waiting for you to use your mouth, not your tongue.
Be a "gentle" man
Women's genitals are very sensitive. Don't bite, don't blow into her and don't suck too hard. Everything you do has to be gentle; as if you're trying to lick a rose's petal without breaking it or pricking yourself. When you feel the time is right, move on to her clitoris -- the place that brings most women to orgasm. Use your tongue softly to make slow, wide and sensual strokes from the vaginal opening to the clitoris.
Keep a steady rhythm
Some men make the mistake of increasing the stroking speed once they sense the woman is close to orgasm. But this is not the right way. Instead, keep the same rhythm or even decrease the stroking speed of your tongue. At this point, she will have a powerful orgasm, and probably more than just one.
Time for gymnastics
Just like intercourse, oral sex feels different depending on how it's delivered. By trying different positions, oral play can create different moods, resulting in different and exciting visual scenarios, and leading to different kinds of stimulation. This will, in turn, set you apart from other men and get her addicted to you.
From personal experience, there are two different positions which really fuel a woman's orgasm: the Reverse Hug and Doggy Greet . The Reverse Hug: This one is tricky but well worth it. You'll need to be in shape to do this, and it's another reason why you should exercise and build your muscles.
Hold her upside down in front of you. Keep her head and shoulders resting on the bed, and her back resting against your stomach and chest. Hold her up so that she won't feel too much pressure on the back of her neck. Have her wrap her legs around your head and lock her feet behind your neck. Wrap your arms around her belly and then simply lower your face between her legs.
Women enjoy this position because of the stimulation caused by the combination of oral sex and the "head rush" they get when positioned upside down.
The Doggy Greet:
This move involves a combination of doggy style intercourse and oral sex. It requires a lot of control and willpower because you need to stop doing what feels best (penetrating her) so that you can concentrate on her pleasure.
How do you do it? While having intercourse in the doggy position, pull out of her when you feel she is close to reaching orgasm. Then lower your head towards her flower and use your mouth and tongue with finesse as described above, until she reaches orgasm. Then just as she thinks the fun is over, enter her again with your manhood and I guarantee you she'll definitely have multiple orgasms, and be very grateful for your unselfishness and creativity.
Why do women appreciate this move? Many women's favorite position is doggy style. It feels good but it becomes more or less predictable. The Doggy Greet is totally unexpected. Most women assume that a man cannot control himself and once penetration begins, a man won't stop until he is satisfied. By pulling out and giving her oral sex, you'll give her two different kinds of stimulation and show your appreciation for her sexual needs.
From her thighs to her mind
Women like it when their men make sex exciting, adventurous and spontaneous, and this includes oral sex. If you do it right, she will never let you go! You can have a small penis and still be sexually brilliant! It doesn't matter how gorgeous your face is, how big you are or how built you are. For women, any man who knows how to give great oral sex is worth his weight in gold. Give her the best possible oral sex and you will stay in her mind forever.
How do you do it? While having intercourse in the doggy position, pull out of her when you feel she is close to reaching orgasm. Then lower your head towards her flower and use your mouth and tongue with finesse as described above, until she reaches orgasm. Then just as she thinks the fun is over, enter her again with your manhood and I guarantee you she'll definitely have multiple orgasms, and be very grateful for your unselfishness and creativity.
Why do women appreciate this move? Many women's favorite position is doggy style. It feels good but it becomes more or less predictable. The Doggy Greet is totally unexpected. Most women assume that a man cannot control himself and once penetration begins, a man won't stop until he is satisfied. By pulling out and giving her oral sex, you'll give her two different kinds of stimulation and show your appreciation for her sexual needs.
From her thighs to her mind
Women like it when their men make sex exciting, adventurous and spontaneous, and this includes oral sex. If you do it right, she will never let you go! You can have a small penis and still be sexually brilliant! It doesn't matter how gorgeous your face is, how big you are or how built you are. For women, any man who knows how to give great oral sex is worth his weight in gold. Give her the best possible oral sex and you will stay in her mind forever.